Some women are diamonds, part 2 #44879
It takes a very special kind of woman to appeal to a conscious man. The analogy I would provide is of a diamond, because a diamonds facets clearly reflect the inner universe of the feminine being. But there is another, more common stone, the quartz crystal which more represents the average woman.
Let me illustrate what the quartz crystal, or average woman is. She relies solely on her anatomy to get through society, which means she does not have to prove herself significant at all in order to be taken care of by any man, or group of men, who stumble down her path, she is taken care of by virtue of having sexually protruding body parts and this is enough for her.
Another feature of the quartz crystal woman is that she has a blurry center, which means she cannot gauge and reflect on her own faults and correct them. Instead of, and in compensation for this, she outwardly manipulates those around her for her own personal gain.
She chooses the easiest victims and takes immediate advantage of them for social gain, a kind of childish opportunism that pervades her being, one that she cannot distance herself from, for to do so would be to compromise her image of herself as someone with power.
When a man does not play to her self image this is percieved as a threat to her power and she moves on to the next easiest target for social manipulation and subsequent engineering, meaning she meticulously constructs and controls the personalities of those she surrounds herself with.
In short, the quartz crystal woman has no need to be significant, for she, by virtue of her status as a social object, and her total contentment with this status fullfills her immediate needs and she goes through life generally unphased. In most cases the quartz crystal woman becomes bitter as she ages, because she begins to realize that she wasted so much of her life and breath on petty games.
In rare instances a quartz crstal woman will meet with this realization at a younger age, thus learning to clear up her blurry center, though it is extremely rare. The quartz crystal woman is the type of woman genuinely intelligent, fully integrated men are repelled by.
Next, we move along to the diamond woman. This is a fully integrated woman. A woman who does not accept mere social status as woman as being adequate validation for her being. This is a woman who, inspite of her physical beauty, does not manipulate those around them with promise of rewards.
The diamond woman is futuristic, yet renaissance. She understands that to wear the clothes of a particular culture, you must understand that culture, that you must live among its people and open your heart to its people. She is the quiet type, but percieves this quite correctly as a strength and not a weakness.
She does not consciously think of herself as special but the way she treats the less fortunate and those in need alludes to her special state of being. She does not treat strangers with any less respect than she does her family or friends. She is not a provincial thinker.
She is not an incestuous thinker, she does not subscribe to the most popular social dogma and therefor cannot use such subscriptions to coax or push and prod other's into social conformity. Understanding the social games most people play, the diamond woman strives against them.
Most people mis-perceive the diamond womans paganistic approach to the opposite sex as being adulterous, even when she is not commited to one man. She understands that this type of thinking comes from men, and leaves it at that. She is manganimous and does not place self gain before mutual respect and pleasure. She does not play the favoritism game.
Lasty, the diamond woman is always striving toward the future of human nature, how we can better treat one another, as opposed to wallowing in the pit of the past and the present, where the only option for women who do is to manipulate their surroundings and to essentially become men.
To men of consciousness, the diamond woman is the precious gift which comes only once in a life time. Or perhaps never.
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If the falling tide can turn and then recover, all alone we must be part of one another